Signs he likes you – what body language to look out for 

There are so many ways that a man can show he’s interested in you. But his body language says all he needs to say without the need of words.

Here are the signs to look out for to check out if he’s really in to you…

Eye contact. This is the big one. Although it’s not just the long, passionate stares that we need to look out for, it’s the sheepish, awkward eye contact that’s the big tell. If your guy isn’t the ultra confident type then he maybe wanting to look at you is too shy to hold the contact.

Check out his pupils too, if they’re dilated when you get up close and personal then he is definitely in to you.

He’s listening. I don’t want to get in to sterotyping here but if your guy is actively listening then he likes you. How do you tell if he’s really listening? He’ll lean in when you’re talking, he’ll make eye contact, he’ll respond accordingly. Don’t automatically assume that a man who glances away or gets momentarily distracted isn’t interested though, he’s probably just refocusing his attention.

He doesn’t fiddle with his smartphone. Smart phones, tablets, they’re the scourge of all relationships across the land. If he can leave his phone or his ipad alone for your date then he’s just focussed in on you. Think about doing the same, ignore texts, calls, tweets and don’t put your phone on the table. If you both cut out technology whilst out then you can focus on what matters – your relationship.

How is he sat? If he’s squaring his shoulders towards you then this means he’s interested in getting to know you. If his foot is pointed towards you as well, even better.